OK, show of hands.
How many of you worry that your marriage may be a bit on a downward slide?
It’s not like it’s on a deathbed. But you fight a little too much. You share tender intimacies a lot less. Everything, and I mean everything, is brisk and business-like.
You lay awake at night wondering what happened. How did you get to this point?
And how on earth do you get back?
Our Story
We found ourselves in that exact spot a couple of years back. I desperately wanted to change things but had no clue where to start. So I just let things be — sliding slowly down into the dreaded unknown that I didn’t want to face.
Until one day, a family medical emergency jerked me out of it. It was the kind that shakes you up and shifts the way you look at life. A lot of things in my life changed after that incident. Our marriage was one of the big ones.
Here are some of the lessons I learned along the way. I hope it will nudge some of you to stop fighting and start loving again. [Read more…]