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20 Easy Ways To Have Your Family Eating Healthier in No Time

by Mindy Carlson.
(This article is part of the Healthy Families series. Get free article updates here.)

Eating Healthier - Main Poster“Salad is my favorite” said no child ever. (Or most grownups for that matter!)

Don’t most of us wish that were the case, though?

Don’t you wish our cravings are for avocado and watermelon instead of candies and sugary treats?

That we wouldn’t be scraping creamed spinach from dinner plates into the trash can, again?

When I was pregnant, I had fantasies about how perfectly I would parent. I would be like June Cleaver or Donna Reed. Hair perfectly coifed, house spotless, skirt swishing as I presented perfectly balanced meals to my family who would look up at me joyfully and say, “Boy, I sure do love your lasagna!”

In reality, my hair was in a ponytail, I was in yoga pants for the 23rd day in a row, and I was close to tears begging my toddler to please, please, try just a tiny bit of broccoli. He, however, sat there with arms crossed and lips sealed as resolute as a pharaoh. He was NOT going to put that green stuff in his mouth.

Why do we put ourselves through this! Why is getting our families eating healthier so important?

Many of us already know that poor childhood diets can set the groundwork for many adult diseases such as osteoporosis, type 2 diabetes, and heart disease. But it can also affect kids in the classroom. A study by the NIH in 2008 showed that children who have unhealthy diets don’t experience the same levels of academic achievement as their classmates who do eat healthily.

It’s so important that former First Lady Michelle Obama made improving the quality of school lunch her mission during her tenure in the White House. Celebrity chef Jamie Oliver started the Food Revolution and tried to get schools and communities all over the world to change how they feed children.

It took a while, and there were times I would have paid them $100 to eat a tomato, but over the years, we’ve made a lot of progress. Now my kids love fruits and vegetables. When they want a snack they grab carrots, celery, or an apple. My husband and I are eating healthier too.

Here’s a quick compendium of the 20 ways that I learned along the way to get my family to be healthy eaters.

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Forget New Year’s Resolutions. Try This Instead This Year.

by Diane Edwards.
(This article is part of the Building Character series. Get free article updates here.)

New Year's Resolutions Vs. Tiny Habits - MainIt’s that time of the year again… you know, the time to make New Year’s resolutions.

How often do you keep your resolutions, though?

Do you make goals like: be a more positive parent, lose 75 lbs., run 2 miles a day, do more things as a family? Those are noble goals, but they are quite lofty and each one realistically requires many small baby steps to even be able to begin to achieve them.

I confess; I’ve made the resolution “be a more positive mom”! I tried to say encouraging things to my kids in the morning while getting ready for school. I attempted to organize my life more efficiently so I would be less stressed and have more energy.

But despite all my great efforts, by Ground Hog Day, I had given up and had literally forgotten about the “positive” list tucked away in a basket in my nightstand.

Things changed 8 years back when I decided to stop making New Year’s resolutions.

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Roots and Wings: How to Give Your Kids The Best Gift Ever

by Cally Worden.
(This article is part of the Strong Kids series. Get free article updates here.)

Roots and Wings: How to Give Your Kids The Best Gift EverSo here’s a parenting conundrum to kick off your day:

Q: How do we keep our kids grounded and secure?

So many possible answers. But the truth behind all of them is really very simple:

A: We give our kids wings and show them how to be free.

This is one of the primary contradictions of parenting – the delicate juggling act between setting limits, while simultaneously encouraging independence.

Finding a way to give our kids both roots to keep them grounded and wings to soar, is quite possibly the best gift we parents can ever give.

It begins as soon as our children start to move unaided. And it’s a paradox that will haunt many of our parenting decisions until they leave home. And beyond.

Finding the balance between boundaries and freedom is key to raising strong kids who will thrive no matter what. It’s the difference between raising a child who is tentative, and one who is self-assured. One who will take life’s knock-backs hard, and one who will meet challenges with confidence.

No pressure then.

It’s enough to tie your own emotions in knots. Not to mention your stomach. Mine is all tangled just thinking about it. So just how do we find a way to give our kids this precious gift?

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10 Things You Should Do Now So Your Kids Know How to Deal with Failure

by Dr. Jill M. Richardson.
(This article is part of the Strong Kids series. Get free article updates here.)

How to Deal With Failure_MainHan Solo may have gotten the princess and light-sabered his way to heroism, but his parenting skills didn’t win any awards.

While superheroes rushing to the rescue may bring in box office accolades, that behavior backfires for parents who want our kids to succeed in a challenging galaxy.

New York Times Parenting blogger Jessica Lahey points to research that most of our kids’ inability to deal with failure, and therefore succeed, stems from our generation’s unwillingness to step away from our kids.

Helicopter parent. Raising my hand right here. Guilty. I did once practically bribe other kids to come to my daughter’s birthday party.

To give children the skills they need to fail successfully (yes, that’s a thing), parents need less Han and more Obi-Wan – watch, listen, dialog, model. Your young jedi will thank you some day for teaching him how to deal with failure effectively using these 10 ways –

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How the Simple “Law of Reciprocity” Can Make You a Better Parent

by Sunita Ramkumar.
(This article is part of the Be Positive series. Get free article updates here.)

Law of Reciprocity - MainImagine this:

You have come home after an unusually busy day, full of errands and your arms stuffed with heavy packages.

You are greeted with a completely messy home with hungry, bored and tired kids. The television is blaring. Dinner has to be prepared.

The kids immediately swarm you, rattling off the day’s highlights, complaints about each other and homework that they need help with.

You dump the packages on the table and try to take stock of the situation. You attempt to simultaneously tell your 12-year-old son to turn down the volume of the TV and your 5-year-old daughter to stop jumping up & down on the new sofa. Both the kids are preoccupied and don’t listen to your repeated instructions.

Just when you think you’ve had enough….your daughter bumps into her brother who pushes her away. She slips and falls to the floor bringing an antique vase down with her.

SMASH!

The TV is the only noise now. Sonny boy smirks and whispers to sis, “Now you’ve done it!”

The little one looks at you with big eyes and is wavering between yelling at her brother angrily and howling in pain, unsure of which one will help her get a lesser penalty!

Such scenes have played out plenty of times at my home (maybe yours too). They have frequently ended with a big fight, a massive scolding, general sulking and me feeling totally burnt out.

But this one time…
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